Check Your Stats

Check all that apply to your dating relationships:

My partner:
Doesn’t like my friends
Puts me down
Threatens me
Always wants to know where I am or where I’ve been
Calls me stupid

Is someone at school or at your job paying “special” attention to you?

Does that attention include unwanted:
Pet names
Touching
Hugs
I knew someone who was always “real happy” to see me
Are you comfortable with the attention you are getting?
At first did the attention make you feel special?
Are you afraid to tell anyone because you don’t want to cause any trouble?
Is the attention growing so intense it’s affecting your daily routine?
Is always trying to get me alone
Has touched me in a way that made me feel uncomfortable

Same-sex Relationships

When my same-sex partner hit me I was...
Shocked In denial Embarrassed

I thought abuse and violence in queer relationships...
Didn’t happen Were rare Were exaggerated

Telling others about the abuse in my relationship, I felt...
Relieved Silenced Ignored

Having a Healthy Relationship

I know what I want in my relationship.
I communicate my wants and needs clearly.
I listen when my partner tells me about their feelings.
My partner supports my interests.
I feel safe in my relationship.